Believe it or not "Love" is usually the last and most difficult thing to let go of after a woman breaks up with you.
Now, the reason for the quotes around the "L" word is because the love that is holding you back from moving on after she breaks up with you isn't the healthy kind of that emotion.
It is more a possessive kind of love that really isn't love at all but a selfish desire of the ego to hold onto and get back something that the ego wants.
If you truly loved her in the way that you say you do it would be easy to let her go because you would already know that you never had her to begin with.
She was and never will be yours as your time together was a choice that she made to be with you and now either consciously or unconsciously she has decided that she wants to move on.
When all that is left is that possessive kind of feeling, in your mind everything makes sense, you get why she left or maybe you don't but a part of you accepts it.
Yet, the ego is still holding on, upset that perhaps she is seeing another and not you even if the rest of you has moved on to another.
So, how do you let go of that possessive kind of feeling that you have for her?
To start, you can begin to challenge it by ignoring what the ego has to say, begin finding new things and new people to interact with and most importantly begin to create and discover empowering places that can overcome and destroy the forces of your ego and its desires.
Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now.
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