Achieving Fulfillment in Love Relationship Without Heartbreaking and Repeated Change of Partners
by: Gerson C. Borges
We all made our share of mistakes when we were young, not knowing or caring about the fact that finding the love of our life would have been the utmost objective to be pursued. Finding someone we could love and trust, and working hard and seriously on it, would have saved a lot of frustration and painful heartbreaking experiences that we had. Obviously, the lack o knowledge had a lot to do with that, but not having a caring and competent advice from someone we could trust and respect, may also have been a determining factor for that. That's what I intend to do now for you; if you pay attention on what I write and set your heart on it, you may achieve the perfect love relationship of your life!
* 1 - How do I find someone I can love and trust?
* 2 - Why can't I try a lot of relationships to make sure I finally found the perfect one?
* 3 - How do I know the person I fall in love with is the one for me?
* 4 - When will I finally be contented with the one I have?
A sense of refined intuition would be an easy way to answer all the questions above. But since not too many of us have that, the second best option would be to think hard and seriously about our future. You may or may not know how terribly fast life slips by us without any warnings. Before we realize it we are dead smack in our old age! Think about it. Don't be light about it. Be deadly serious about it. Look in the mirror… now look at a picture of you taken ten years before. What about looking at a picture taken from you, 20 years back… What you think? Terrible, isn't it?
Now, wake up and face the reality of life. What good will it be to have a number of relationships and have fun with each for a while, just to find out a few years later that the balance of true and satisfying results shows a big zero?
Happiness does not add up when it comes to short and meaningless relationships in our lives.
If you accept that and set up your objective in avoiding making those common mistakes, you'll have a good chance to achieve the very difficult goal to become a happily married individual that has
done what human beings are supposed to do in life: grow, multiply, and have a big, happy posterity.
Now, in answer to the five questions above:
1 - Love at first sight may sound romantic, but although it can lead to the perfect relationship, it often won't, so here is what I'd advise you to do: don't quickly jump into a love affair. Establish a friendly relationship and try to get to know theother the person as deeply as you can. Things to look for: truthfulness, good character, reliability, good companionship. Exchange emails trying to find out the other person's traits and things that make him or her tick. If after a while you honestly think him or her have many affinities and is compatible with you, then go ahead and let the friendship turn into a love affair.
2 - This is surely the biggest mistake we make. A lot of different love relationships will give you an erroneous idea that you're enjoying a fantastic romance and sex life each time, but as time goes by, soon you'll bitterly regret have been so shallow and irresponsible, as all the romantic 'cases' you went through were nothing but a disguised excuse to find your true love.
3 - You'll find the right partner when him or her shows they really care about you, not only your looks or your youth. And by that I mean that they open their life and heart to you, hiding nothing and show their naked souls. When they prove that they are able to give in when there's an important issue between the two of you, and finally when they prove to you that they sincerely desire to build a happy home and have a family with you.
4 - You'll be contented with your love partner when you realize that you are two bodies and two souls in one, willing to together tackle and overcome any and all the obstacles that we all encounter in a life together. From this point on up, you're on your way to become a happy person who has achieved the supreme objective in life: grow, build a family, and love and be loved 'till the end of your useful life.
By: Gerson C. Borges
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